My nonmember husband and I have been married for almost 18 years. And when you give all that you have to support someone else's dream, the money, cars, jewelry, etc mean little, unless you're a gold digger. And believe me, I can relate to many of the things you talk about in your blog. Of course, it will cause fights, as well.
Her home time is exclusively for the kids and paper work. Love in Different Languages. I know a guy who had a hobby of corrupting Mormon girls he was abused by his TBM parentsand I'm told you're both right.